Over the years, more and more Christian churches have begun to perform same-sex marriage ceremonies. Churches ordaining these marriages is a largely debated topic, and it mostly comes down to how each denomination interpret the teachings in the Bible. Several denomination have either allowed same-sex marriages to be ordained in their church or have left it up to the individual minister’s discretion, but this trend is starting to grow in the United States. The United Methodist Church, however, is still strongly holding their stance against ordaining same-sex marriages. Although many members of the United Methodist Church are actually in favor allowing these marriages to be performed.
Proving this point, there was a recent wedding in North Carolina performed by Bishop Melvin Talbert and Pastor Val Rosenquist who officiated the marriage of Jim Wilborne and John Romano. This marriage went directly against the United Methodist Church Book of Discipline that sanctions only marriage between a man and a woman, and Bishop Talbert and Pastor Rosenquist could face repercussions and be subject to church punishment. Bishop Talbert, who has been speaking in favor or same-sex marriage over the years sees no problem in what he did, he claims, “Discrimination is discrimination, no matter where it is, and it’s wrong. I hope that what we did here yesterday will be an act of evangelism for people… who are looking for safe places to come because they don’t want to be identified with anti-gay [sentiment].” Bishop Talbert calls what he did an act of “biblical obedience,” and says allowing services like this one is the right thing to do, and if there will be punishment for what he has done, let it come. He believes in providing a place for people who agree with same-sex marriage to come and worship and practice their religion.
This event with the Methodist church in North Carolina, along with other denominations that have already started to allow same-sex marriages to be performed in their churches, are an example of how religions are starting to adapt in America. Our society is constantly changing, and with the legalization of same-sex marriage several years ago for all states, has been a big change and debate for religious groups. This is something that has never really been considered for most denominations in the past, and now it is something that each denomination needs to debate on and see where they personally stand. This is an issue that a large number of Americans feel strongly about, and believe that this is a basic human right. Whatever stance, for or against, each denomination chooses to hold might mean the loss of members of their church, but this is possibly an example of how religious groups may need to adapt to survive in our society.
~ Jessica Guynes
Sources:
http://www.charlotteobserver.com/living/religion/article73685782.html